I married my soulmate husband
after I was in toxic relationships & situationships all my life.
Identity Transformation
Transform your identity, get visibly better outcomes.
Inside The Membership, you convert your self-awareness into real-world results in your relationships, career, confidence and life, through identity transformation, coached by psychologist Kyra Bolzan.
Feels familiar?
Let’s fix it.
I know why you feel like something's just off
"I've already worked on myself, but I'm still not where I want to be."
"I'm aware of my patterns, but they still keep repeating."
"Maybe I'm the problem and it's just not meant for me."
"I've tried almost everything, so I don't know what else to do."
"I know where it comes from, I just don't know how to change it."
"I know what to do, but for some reason I just don't do it."
Here's the truth: You don't need more information or theories around why you're stuck. You don't need another YouTube video, another self-growth podcast, or another therapy label that explains everything and changes nothing. You just need the right resources + support to actually turn your self-awareness into a different life. That's it. And I'll give you exactly what 250+ people before you have used to change their lives.
The exact inner work that has built my dream life:
Identity transformation isn't another woo-woo thing on the internet. It's the bridge between working on yourself and seeing the changes in your real life. Without it, you can be self-aware, but your circumstances stay unchanged.
I started my own business and grew it to 6 figures
when I had 0 dollars to my name.
I built extreme confidence
& overcame my fear of being seen as a retired people pleaser.
I finished my psychology master's with excellence
after being called the "dumb kid" in school.
I travel the world with my two chihuahuas
fulfilling my childhood dream
I grew closer with my family
after healing from my past and letting go of old pain.
In this membership, I give you the exact psychology that changed my entire life
Why Can't Therapy Do This?
Therapy can diagnose, label and treat you, but judging by the fact that you're here... you probably didn't want treatment, you just wanted to change your situation. And as self-awareness has become the new normal, getting better results or different outcomes in real life is what's actually rare and valuable.
I've helped 250+ people do exactly that.
Here's exactly what you get when you join:
*All resources come in form of trainings, frameworks, workbooks, tools or programs.*
Included · 01
Weekly Q&A
Drop your questions anytime. Every week, I personally answer them through audio, video, or text, so you always have direct access to me and get personalized feedback on your unique situations.
Included · 02
The Love & Relationships Collection
Resources on trauma bonds, attachment, boundaries and how to attract & build the secure, loving relationship you really deserve.
Included · 03
The Money & Career Collection
Resources on your money mindset, career ceilings, financial blocks and how to build the wealth and success you want.
Included · 04
The Confidence & Self-Esteem Collection
Resources on self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, visibility wounds and self-worth and how to become the confident, unshakeable version of you.
Included · 05
The Family & Healing Collection
Resources on childhood wounds, generational patterns, family conditioning and how to heal your past without carrying it into your future.
Included · 06
The Life & Self-Development Collection
Resources on habits, discipline, resilience and how to become the version of you who keeps winning even when life gets hard.
Included · 07
The Spirituality & Faith Collection
Resources on trust, purpose and how to have a deeper relationship with God or the universe that actually fits you, not someone else's version of it.
Bonus features:
Bonus · 08
The Toolbox
My personal go-to emotion regulation tools I use to stay grounded, clear minded and in control under stress and pressure.
Bonus · 09
Ego Work Course
A members' favorite you get the moment you join, so you start from the right foundation and reduce the risk of self-sabotage.
Over the last 4 years, I've helped change over 250+ lives:
Veronique
"I've done therapy, I've done coaching but this was so different. I don't feel slower or ''softer'', I feel steadier. Like I'm allowed to still want more and go after it but this time without losing my mind."
Christian
"Kyra helped me see and rewire patterns that were silently holding me back in both my life and my business."
Corina
"Kyra helped me identify blindspots I didn’t even realize were there and reconnect with the dreams and purpose I had lost along the way."
Anna
"Kyra knows exactly how to unlock your highest potential. I love working with her and I have seen a huge difference in myself."
Carole
"Without Kyra, I wouldn't even be doing this video because I would be too scared and too ashamed. I'm so much more stress resilient and I learned the hard way to prioritize myself."
Andreia
"What I thought was postpartum depression turned out to be deeper patterns from my past. Working through them with Kyra completely changed my relationship with my kids and my partner."
Aviana
"Kyra helped me understand how to handle the pressure of being a high-achieving woman and turn it into something productive instead of overwhelming."
More client stories
Monthly support to change your life:
Step 1: Instant access
When you join, you get immediate access to everything.
Step 2: Set the right foundation
We recommend starting with our members' favorite, "My Best Friend Ego", an intro course on ego work to set the right foundation and reduce your risk of self-sabotage (optional, of course).
Step 3: You ask, I answer
Then you're free to drop your questions in the Q&A anytime. Every week, I personally answer, coach you, and give you feedback on your unique situation.
Step 4: 24/7 access to resources
And the whole time, you have 24/7 access to every Collection (trainings, tools, frameworks, and programs) across every area of life, ready for whatever you need, right when you need it.
Step 5: Repeat and grow with me
As your life expands, new levels bring new things to work through. This is where you keep showing up for that, for as long as you want. (Cancel anytime!)
Let's do the math on what it's worth
The Membership
Cancel anytime!The Core Offer:
- Weekly Q&A for personalized coaching$1,997
- The Love & Relationships Collection$1,497
- The Career & Money Collection$997
- The Confidence & Self-Esteem Collection$1,497
- The Family & Healing Collection$1,497
- The Life & Self-Development Collection$449
- The Faith & Spirituality Collection$499
The Bonuses:
- The Toolbox$249
- Ego Work Course$249
Total value USD$8,931
Save $8,782on your first month vs. the total listed value
What you pay
Join The Membership $149/Month
This membership is for you if...
- If you’ve done the therapy, read the books, binged the podcasts, can name every pattern… and your life still looks the same.
- You want better relationships, more money, stronger confidence (maybe all three and more) and you're done doing the inner work but not seeing it pay off.
- You don’t want another expert with labels or a course you won’t finish. You want someone with lived experience coaching you through change.
This is NOT for you if...
- You want to be saved and validated, but you're not willing to take responsibility and commit to changing.
- You’re early in healing acute trauma and need serious treatment.
- You love being a victim of your own excuses, "no time," "no money," when really, you're just okay with paying the price of losing time and staying stuck.
Hi, I'm Kyra Bolzan-Wilson
Psychologist and coach. And if you're wondering "why should I work with you?", I could list my two coaching certifications and my master's in psychology, but that's boring and nobody cares.
You found me because you've probably tried a lot already and it didn't quite get you where you want to be. That's why I call myself the last psychologist you hire, not the first. Because I don't care if what we do looks stiff & professional, I care that it actually works.
I was self-aware but stuck for 7 years before I found identity transformation, that's why I'm so excited to support you from here on.
Frequently Asked Questions
Got questions? We've got answers...
"Do I get personal feedback on my own unique challenges and situations?"
Yes. Every week in the Q&A, I personally answer your questions and coach you on your exact situation.
"Are there live calls? Do I have to attend live?"
No. Between kids, jobs, life happening, and everyone being in different time zones, getting people to one time and date is hard. That's why we do the Q&A instead, you drop your question whenever, and get personal feedback without having to show up live.
"What happens if I leave the membership, will I lose everything?"
You'll never lose what you've actually learned, the skills, the wins, the changes you've made. Those are yours for life.
But to keep this accessible at a low price point, we can't offer non-members ongoing access to 100+ hours of resources. Once you cancel, you lose access to the resources and coaching, not the transformation.
"Can I get a refund?"
No. Due to the nature of digital products, you get immediate access the moment you join, so refunds aren't offered. You can cancel anytime and you won't be charged again, but there are no refunds for the current month.
"Is there a community?"
No, and that's on purpose. Unfortunately, group spaces can easily turn into trauma bonding or a victim mindset. We won't have that. Instead, this is your personal journey, built around your outcomes, so you get direct coaching and support from me, not a comment section.
"How is this different from free YouTube advice or other courses?"
You've probably watched enough YouTube and listened to enough podcasts to basically have a degree in yourself by now. That's not the problem. The problem is nobody's coaching you on how to actually apply it to your real life. This isn't more hacks and tips, it's personal support from a psychologist, direct feedback on your exact situation, and 100+ hours of resources built on a method that has transformed hundreds of people's lives.
"Can I stay longer than 30 days?"
Of course. A lot of members choose to stay for years. Once you get a taste of actually changing your life, you don't just want one win, you want the next one, and the one after that.
"I don't want everyone to know my business."
We understand and that's actually part of why we don't have a community. In the Q&A, people can read your question, and you can read theirs, but everything stays strictly confidential and secure, weird behavior isn't tolerated.
The benefits?
1. You get personal support for a fraction of the price of 1:1 coaching.
2. You get to see we're not that different at all... same emotions, same human experiences, which makes you feel less alone.
3. You get answers to questions you didn't even know you had yet, which speeds up your own transformation.
"When does it start?"
Right when you join you get instant access, no waitlist, no specific start date or waiting for new cohort.
"I don't know if I have the money for it."
Everything in life has a price. The price of changing your situation is $149/month. The price of staying the same is staying insecure, staying broke, staying unhappy, staying in relationships that don't fulfill you. We kept this membership affordable on purpose, so it's accessible even without the big cash. So really, ask yourself, is it that you don't have the money, or that you don't value the life you say you want?
"Is there a guarantee?"
The guarantee is that the method this membership is built on top of, is proven to work. What we can't guarantee is that you'll actually put in the work and apply what we teach, that part's on you. But if you do, this can change your whole life, just like it did for over 250+ others.
"Can I cancel anytime?"
Yes. Cancel whenever you want.
Disclaimer:
All content, coaching, programs, and materials provided on this website are intended for educational and personal development purposes only. They are not medical, therapeutic, financial, or legal advice and are not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. By using this website or participating in our services, you acknowledge that you are solely responsible for your own decisions, actions, and results. Individual outcomes vary and no guarantees are made regarding any specific results.
